Hello World,
Most mamas when asked what's the most unforgettable day in her life was and they would instantly state that it was the day her 1st kid is born. Such was the instance with me and my mama. Looking back, i found it sick now that I used to ask my momma for a lot of things, even just to make a simplistic problem or just simply acquiring water out of the fridge just because I was too sluggish to do so myself. My mum is stressed out all the time because of multi-tasking between her job and taking care of us that at some point I foreboded I would never be a mum, ever. Who would want to be a mum after watching your own mother get 2 hard jobs simultaneously and still gets time to attend to us youngsters all the while being sleep and rest deprived?
But what is the true heart and soul of being a mother?
What things do we have to hold to be called a mum? And why are they so fantastic even to the point of awarding them a special occasion to wit, making us go crazy over what to give as Mothers Day Gifts? These are general questions that I do not wish to be asked of since I do not know the perfect resolution.
Ironic as it may appear `coz in the end I turned into a mum myself. Here are some of the brilliant things I've learned during motherhood.
I determined that the phrasal idiom "Its Okay, Mommys here" works like magic; That only one pretty face exists no matter what the circumstances are and mothers have it; Hearing the phrase "Mother Knows Best" either means "I told you so" or you have to get some sort of approval from your mom about a particular matter.
Most importantly, being a mother means being the source of comfort, trust, care, and unconditional love in the family. A bundle of emotions comes with motherhood that defies all known reason.
Being a mother means giving life to your kids, teach them things, let them know right from wrong, giving them freedom to live their lives but not living it for your children, not learning it for them, not deciding it for them but in the end be accountable for them.
Despite your children taking the path that you least like in life, a mother should be supporting them every step they take. Because being a mother is to always be there even if it hurts. Because the truth is, once a mother, always a mother.
So what does it usually take to become a real mother? Courage. One other thing that makes most mothers special is their ability to take the place of all other people or in other words being in their shoes. And why are they so important to be remembered because they brought you into this world and even gave up theirs so you can be happy.
I know this because I have a very wonderful mom. Now that I am a mother my self, the best part of my life is in fact my children who values me and I will love them wholeheartedly forever.
What things do we have to hold to be called a mum? And why are they so fantastic even to the point of awarding them a special occasion to wit, making us go crazy over what to give as Mothers Day Gifts? These are general questions that I do not wish to be asked of since I do not know the perfect resolution.
Ironic as it may appear `coz in the end I turned into a mum myself. Here are some of the brilliant things I've learned during motherhood.
I determined that the phrasal idiom "Its Okay, Mommys here" works like magic; That only one pretty face exists no matter what the circumstances are and mothers have it; Hearing the phrase "Mother Knows Best" either means "I told you so" or you have to get some sort of approval from your mom about a particular matter.
Most importantly, being a mother means being the source of comfort, trust, care, and unconditional love in the family. A bundle of emotions comes with motherhood that defies all known reason.
Being a mother means giving life to your kids, teach them things, let them know right from wrong, giving them freedom to live their lives but not living it for your children, not learning it for them, not deciding it for them but in the end be accountable for them.
Despite your children taking the path that you least like in life, a mother should be supporting them every step they take. Because being a mother is to always be there even if it hurts. Because the truth is, once a mother, always a mother.
So what does it usually take to become a real mother? Courage. One other thing that makes most mothers special is their ability to take the place of all other people or in other words being in their shoes. And why are they so important to be remembered because they brought you into this world and even gave up theirs so you can be happy.
I know this because I have a very wonderful mom. Now that I am a mother my self, the best part of my life is in fact my children who values me and I will love them wholeheartedly forever.
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